每年都有看到Petronas做的贺岁短片
每一个都那么有意思
就如这一个一样
总是那么扣人心弦

现在的我开心吗？快乐吗？

其实大部分时间都不快乐

虽然我进到了我想要的大学

虽然我读着自己想读的科系

可是为此我得离开我心爱的家

远离家人

远离朋友

远离母校

学校有什么活动的时候

我都参与不到

只能等到冷清清的假期

才能回去

学校有我好多美丽的回忆

那里很多我认识的同学

也会一个个慢慢地离开了

几年后或许我有时间了

但人都不在了

如果有机会

我真的好想能单独跟每一位朋友聊天

享受聊天

忽然非常想念学长团集合

在那我很活跃

喜欢搞气氛

让大家笑

看见大家笑

我也很开心

在别人心中或许我只是个小丑

一个没什么特别之处的小丑

或许他们笑过了什么都忘了

忘了我曾经很卖力过

我不曾是组长不是执委

或许这就注定着我输人一节

被他人遗忘

不管我做得多好甚至比他们好

我在他们心中的地位都只是如此

有时候

有些人

会突然出现问候我

谢谢他们

很多人

来找我的时候

都是问我电脑技术的问题

功课的问题

真是无事不登三宝殿

曾经很无奈

但想了想

至少我在现实方面还能帮到他们

不管他们把我当成什么

至少我给予我朋友帮助

他们给了我机会回报他们

but maybe they just took it for granted

我知道我很爱比较

经常心里不平衡

觉得自己受到不同的待遇

或许别人真的付出比我多

别人比我更有能力

别人比我拥有更多机会

在这里

我没有一个聊得开的朋友

有些朋友很熟

但不知为何就是无法聊心事

最近开始喜欢把有意思的影片放到这里

每次看到类似的影片都会流泪
人生那么短暂
却那么忙碌
我时时都会告诉着自己
家人是人生中最重要的

一世人只会有一个爸爸
他们总是呵护着我们
男人总是爱面子不善于用言语表达
就像我自己一样
把爱藏在心中
表现在行动
并非在言语

Nice story again

*

Robert Kyosaki in his "Money and You" workshops often relates the very telling story of the IBM company in the States. One middle executive there made a tactical error that cost the company $9 million. The following week the executive, sure he was about to be fired, was called into the office of the Chairman. The Chairman started discussing plans for a huge new projet that he wanted the executive to direct. After a certain point, the executive was feeling so uncomfortable he had to stop the Chairman: "Excuse me, sir, you know I'm amazed. Last week I cost us $9 million. Why are you putting me in charge of this new project? I thought you were going to fire me." The Chairman smiled. "Fire you? Young man, I've just invested $9 million educating you. You're now one of my most valuable assets." Here was a chairman who valued the willingness to risk and learn. He knew it was an essential ingredient in the successful executive.

*

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一个领导者不同的想法

不但给了别人一次机会

也激励了下属更向上发奋

其实有时候只是想要人家不要敷衍自己

或许我不是你们的心上人

可是需要这样对待吗？

或许大部分时候是我主动找你们聊天

就像这个影片一样

虽然有点搞笑

但笑了之后

我感到有点悲哀

不管是谁找我

如果我不忙

我会好好地跟她说话

我不会说“哦”，“哈哈”

如果我忙

我会告诉他们

如果来不及告诉

只要我记得

都会解释甚至向他们道歉

Just learned a word - Assertive

Maybe I'm too aggressive instead of assertive

Everyone have their right not to entertain me

还记得以前嘲笑一个朋友热脸贴冷屁股

原来自己也没差

又是一个很有意思的影片



自己也曾经被陌生人帮助过~
那种感觉真的很棒~
有时候有一些事很简单
但是又有多少人愿意做

每天一小善事
会让世界变得更美好
善事不需要大富大贵才做得起
做善事更不需要得到别人的赞美

就像影片一样的
这会感染到你身边的人
他得到你的帮助之后
出奇的也会有一股很想帮助别人的欲望

而饶了一大圈
可能就是因为你的一个小举动
让自己也感受到了人间的爱

Life Vest - because kindness keeps the world float

看到了一个很值得分享的故事

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles roll
ed into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full.. The students responded with a unanimous ‘yes.’

The professor then produced two Beers from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space between the sand.The students laughed..

‘Now,’ said the professor as the laughter subsided, ‘I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things—-your family, your children, your health, your friends and your favorite passions—-and if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full. The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and your car.. The sand is everything else—-the small stuff.

‘If you put the sand into the jar first,’ he continued, ‘there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life.

If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are important to you.

Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.

Spend time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with grandparents. Take your spouse out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and mow the lawn.

Take care of the golf balls first—-the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the Beer represented. The professor smiled and said, ‘I’m glad you asked.’ The Beer just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, there’s always room for a couple of Beers with a friend.

希望大家都清楚知道

自己心中的golf ball是什么

你有多久没有关心你的家人了呢？